π HELP NOWWhat's happening right now?
Pick the closest match. You'll get what to say right now, then one short lesson for later.
What to say, right nowWon't change progress
- A friendship problemTalk through conflict, exclusion or hurt feelings.What to say β
- I'm bad at this and won't tryHelp them start when they think they'll fail.What to say β
- Big feelings or a meltdownHelp them slow down and settle.What to say β
- Won't get off the screenHelp them stop without a fight.What to say β
- Worry or scary what-if thoughtsHelp them understand the worry and pick a next step.What to say β
- Can't focus on homeworkHelp them start and stay with it.What to say β
- Gave up because it was hardHelp them try again after it went wrong.What to say β
- Keeps asking me to buy thingsHandle the pestering without a scene.What to say β
- Won't do what they said they wouldHelp them follow through on a promise.What to say β
- Running late and won't get readyHelp them get moving without the rush.What to say β
A note for parents
Everyday skills, not treatment
LessonFive teaches everyday skills. It does not diagnose or treat any condition.
When to get more help
If your child's difficulty is severe or lasts for weeks, talk to a teacher, doctor or school counselor.